3 WAYS TO IMPROVE YOUR MINDSET
Hello my dear readers. After a long months of absence, am
back again on my blog with something different this time . During these two
last months that is June and August, so many things happened in my life. This has
been the two most busiest and enriching two months of my life. There are
certain things that I’ve learnt lately and I wanted to share those things with
you guys in the aim to help you.
So why did I put the title of this post “3 simple ways to
improve your mindset”. Well that is because there are things that I’ve realized
and put in practice that has in a way changed the way I used to think about
life. There are various things that I would love to share with you but for now,
I’ve listed only 3 main points that will hopefully help you not to change yourself
but rather in improving yourself. So here we go.
1.
P11.People’s expectations of you.
What I mean by people, I am referring to your parents mainly and then people who are close to you. When these close ones have expectations on you, the pressure of handling that is so huge that at times it’s hard to cope. And if that expectation gets broken, the burden of holding that “failure” is even bigger. The way I’ve cope with people’s expectations wasn’t easy. I have somehow failed at certain point in my life whether it is in my studies or in my relationships, but I’ve always find a way to keep my mindset straight. So my advice to you is to never let that expectation of people overwhelms your goals. Excessive mental pressure is not good for your health and neither for your focus. Pressure is good when it pushes you to attain your goal. Always take people’s expectations as a booster and not as a weight to carry. If you succeed, good for you. And if you fail, it’s never late to start all over again. Just never lets people’s expectations distracts you from your objective.
What I mean by people, I am referring to your parents mainly and then people who are close to you. When these close ones have expectations on you, the pressure of handling that is so huge that at times it’s hard to cope. And if that expectation gets broken, the burden of holding that “failure” is even bigger. The way I’ve cope with people’s expectations wasn’t easy. I have somehow failed at certain point in my life whether it is in my studies or in my relationships, but I’ve always find a way to keep my mindset straight. So my advice to you is to never let that expectation of people overwhelms your goals. Excessive mental pressure is not good for your health and neither for your focus. Pressure is good when it pushes you to attain your goal. Always take people’s expectations as a booster and not as a weight to carry. If you succeed, good for you. And if you fail, it’s never late to start all over again. Just never lets people’s expectations distracts you from your objective.
2.Plans doesn’t always work !
Certain things in life are unpredictable. Hard
work and destiny surely is an important key element to make things change but
at time we have no control over the situations. From personal experience,
things I’ve planned didn’t really happen. It might be very subjective but that’s
my experience. Whatever the reason it might be, I couldn’t do what I’ve planned.
This was very annoying at a point in time. Changing the way you viewed life all
of a sudden isn’t easy. Yet I had to. And
the surprising point is that, the way things changed isn’t bad at all. I don’t know
if it is better if things wouldn’t have change but it is certainly not bad. My point is that at times we tend to
overestimate and underestimate the way we picture our life. And then when opportunity
strikes, we can’t really turn our back to it. It might be completely different
from what we were planning to do but it might also be a signal of improvement
and change. So never ignore the signals life is giving you. If plans need to be
change, change it. Maybe something better is coming your way. You just have to recognize
those signs.
2. 3. Living with regrets.
Regretting in life according to me is one of the biggest fatalities that exist. I admit I have huge regrets in life .For the longest of time; it has been very difficult to live with it. The fact that you missed experiences that could enriches you kept on haunting you. It’s really sad when you think of those opportunities I’ve missed due to lack of confidence or shyness. This is part of my personality, I can’t change it. Yet, I’ve stop living with those regrets because there’s really no use of doing that. Regrets are lost opportunities. And living with those regrets will prevent you from conquering those new opportunity. It’s kind of a “lose lose” situation in here. We might not think about it very often, but if we had a little gut or a little more confidence, maybe today we would have been happy of doing those things rather that regretting of not having that extra courage at that time. Living with regrets is another weight that pulls you down. Regretting has nothing to do in your mind. Let bygones be bygones. Life moves on, so are you. As from now, whenever you are about to give up on something you really want. Think of the regrets you will have after. This might help you in collecting lifelong memories or experiences.
Regretting in life according to me is one of the biggest fatalities that exist. I admit I have huge regrets in life .For the longest of time; it has been very difficult to live with it. The fact that you missed experiences that could enriches you kept on haunting you. It’s really sad when you think of those opportunities I’ve missed due to lack of confidence or shyness. This is part of my personality, I can’t change it. Yet, I’ve stop living with those regrets because there’s really no use of doing that. Regrets are lost opportunities. And living with those regrets will prevent you from conquering those new opportunity. It’s kind of a “lose lose” situation in here. We might not think about it very often, but if we had a little gut or a little more confidence, maybe today we would have been happy of doing those things rather that regretting of not having that extra courage at that time. Living with regrets is another weight that pulls you down. Regretting has nothing to do in your mind. Let bygones be bygones. Life moves on, so are you. As from now, whenever you are about to give up on something you really want. Think of the regrets you will have after. This might help you in collecting lifelong memories or experiences.
THANKS FOR READING.
AKASH MANDHOO
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